New Moon is actually Dark Moon

New moon is not about intention setting. 

What is called a new moon is actually still the dark moon.  So today when you see "new moon" announcements everywhere then remember it's still the dark moon phase. 

That means it's not at all the best time to set intentions. 

The promoted "new moon" is simply a scientifically calculated point and has nothing to do with the actual moon flow AND HOW IT INFLUENCES YOU. 


There's a difference between Dark moon or New Moon. I've been seeing this misconception widely spread at every single new moon.


Feeling the difference between a dark and a new and a full moon is essential in the Return of the Goddess. Otherwise it's just an off balance version of it. Working with the Moon Phases means understanding the calendar so you can work in alignment with the energy. 

If you are confused about the Moon Phases then please use the free Moon Phases e-book. 

I teach about the moon in the best-selling Moon Energy Workshop which discusses all the moon phases and shows you how to best work with this energy. 

More information on this workshop here.

Is there fame in your horoscope?

You like the sparkle, the celebs & wonder if it will happen for you too. Some people's birth charts are just more helpful to ensure you end up on a grand stage. So what astrological aspects are helpful in getting yourself out there?

Is it in the stars? Check out the checklist!

+ The 10th house plays an important role. This represents your career and how well you are known for what you do. A packed 10th house (a lot of planets there) can be very helpful. You are not just looking for any planet though, look for the power ones like the Sun for example.

+ The Sun in the 10th house. Even better is having your Sun conjuct your midheaven. These people are born to shine.

+ Pluto conjunct the ascendant. These people just ooze power & people want to know all about them. They are natural leaders. Richard Branson has this aspect. No need to further explain ;)

+ Leo is an obvious star sign wanting to shine. But the Leo ASC people especially love being on stage and showing themselves to the world. Like in acting for example. Mind you, just having this ascendant doesn't mean much though. The rest of the chart needs supporting.

+ A lot of planets in Capricorn.

+ Venus conjunct your ascendant or a lot of positive aspects between Venus & your ASC. These people are naturally liked & often pretty. In fame looks do help.

+ For actors a lot of positive aspects to the moon or a sun-moon conjunction helps to act out all these emotions.

+ A stellium (many planets together) in the 11th house. This house rules groups & the public. The more there, the more likely you will have a crowd of followers.

+ A difficult T-square may help to never give up and keep on going.

Is your 10th & 11th house completely empty? No worries. Many aspects to your Midheaven are just as good a sign.

---> You can check out your chart for free on www.astro.com
This list is by no means the full list of aspects & possibilities. For example a writer's chart needs completely different aspects than a big ass, successful CEO for example.

Personal development: 9 tips on dealing with stress

When feeling high strung there's no fun in going through your day. You feel like you are behind with everything or easily snap when something out of routine happens. Not a fun place to be in. I'm very sensitive to stress due to hyperthyroidism and in the past I chose to work in the most pumped up environment as a journalist. So stress management and being balanced is a major priority. Not to mention I need to be focussed and calm when reading the tarot cards.

So how should to deal with stress? Here's a few of my tricks:

1. It's an open door, but exercise and scheduling time in for yoga in the morning (!) makes a huge difference. Even if you just take 20 minutes. Do it daily and you'll just smile in a zen way when the office floods, your computer crashes and there's a small fire in the kitchen. Breathe and feel centered.

2. Magnesium. This mineral is a natural calmer helping the nerve system.

3. If this is already too late & you are feeling stressed RIGHT NOW: you have to stop what you are doing. Recognize you are feeling the nerves. This can be very hard to do, because you are in a hurry. You want to stop, look around slowly, be aware of where you are, think of the room you are in, the surroundings, the city/village and feel you are part of a whole. Then draw the attention back to you, feel your body. It doesn't matter how fast the world is going, try to see you as the center of your universe. You are allowed to be present in the moment.

4. Plan. Sit down and take that time to at least see your daily schedule. Walk through your day. This may calm you. If it doesn't then write down in your planner you will have a severe look at your schedule. It may be too much and needs adjusting.

5. Stress makes our aura tight. Chances are you only look at what's near by you. If you are walking on the pavement try looking ahead/the horizon/looking at the full road and relax your shoulders.

6. There's many great sprays and precious stones that you can take with you to help you stay centered.

7. But it starts with being honest to yourself about what stresses you. Sometimes a different environment or handling situations in a different way help. I love Sunday morning walks in the city when it's quiet and obviously rush hour on a Monday isn't my idea of fun. You can often take a train/bike ride/go by car earlier than the crowd. I used to start an hour early when I worked at a magazine and it was simply bliss. Avoiding the feeling of being a sardine in a can and I got stuff done. I was also allowed to leave an hour early. So talk it through with your employer if this could be a solution for you. 

8. Don't make any major decisions when you feel like this.

9. You are allowed right now to care for yourself. You are of most importance. You are loved and worth it.