The healing process (and why you suddenly stop healing)

Hey beautiful, 

If you are on the healing path then it's inevitable you'll run into this at some point. Being a healer that assists with deep emotional healing worldwide I've seen it many times; people who are in the middle of their healing process will suddenly stop continuing it. 

One of the main reasons is that it's feeling uncomfortable and patterns and habits are trying to get the upper hand. They start to whisper in the unconscious ear that it was comforting where they were at. 

One of the main sources I can see this in is in dreams. I always ask clients that have done the deep healing subconscious surgery sessions with me to share their dreams. Because it will tell me exactly what's been shifted. And what pattern we moved around. 

In these sessions we go to the absolute core of issues. And then remove the pattern and literally move the 'wiring' of someone in a different space and place so it will work to their benefit. 

I will never remove too much and take care of what's underneath that. Because I know it may feel a bit strange and your way of being will re-adapt itself. Usually it will create an immense space and excitement. 

Resistance 

Sometimes the subconscious will resist. Because even though patterns may be negatively effecting you and will not at all keep you to wished for outcomes like being in a relationship, losing weight, aligning yourself to that career that will make you feel so much better each and every day... They are there for a reason. They try to keep you save (from whatever you feel is threatening). Be it intimacy, be it being vulnerable, failure and more.

Therefore these sessions need repeating a few times, so other insecurities, emotions and more can be removed and a healthy new, beneficial way for you can last. 

It's the same in all healing: if you stop the work, then you've hit on a self-sabotage or inner resistance level. Sometimes it's the obvious ones like having to face responsibility in a situation. 

Owning up to the shadow part. 

The shadow part consists of all things we would rather not show to the world. In its extreme and people who don't do self-work or examining this shadow will be projected outwardly. Like in racism for example. So they didn't do it. It's all the foreigners fault. The group of 'foreigners' then takes the blame for all that's not being owned up too. "They take all the jobs!", is something that then would be said.  

If you hit a healing plateau then you KNOW you are in avoidance mode. That's the first sign. There are a few things to do. 

1. Give yourself some time and be compassionate with whatever is going on internally. You are only trying to protect you. 

2. Do remind yourself of your desire once you feel ready. Is it still important enough for you? 

3. If it is then the only way is forward and go through it, because it will hover around within you and will give up eventually again which means it still needs tackling then. Only if you are then years further along the road & still have the same results you had before, it will give you a bit of a headache. Best face it now. 

4. Remember that if you do go through it, you will always feel better and you won't feel that sting anymore. Because it's truly gone. It's like having the flu. You feel shitty at the time, but if I someone asks you weeks later how you feel you won't even remember how awful that flu made you feel.

If you want to deep heal some self sabotages then Akashic Healing , subconscious surgery and the emotional well-being are your match. >>watch a sneak peek here<< 


Laura Diane Soer is a Spiritual Life Coach, Teacher and Healer

Websites: moonhouse-teachings.thinkific.com - www.moonhousetarot.com

Laura serves clients all over the world by giving clarity, healing old emotions and teaching people tools they can use to connect back to their own wisdom and healing power. She has been on the spiritual path for almost 25 years and loves incorporating the ancient wisdom of the Moon in sessions.  

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Fear while changing your life: 8 tips on dealing with it

I'm sure that there are people out there with nerves of steel, making changes like they are cooking up their breakfast. But generally when you are really getting out of your comfort zone it will give you anxiety for a while.

Leaving your comfort zone. What to expect and how to deal with it. 

1. So, you made up your mind and chose to take an action that truly transforms your life. Yay you! And then all of a sudden all your nerves are instantly tensed. You feel like you are in a sudden crash and disaster is lurking at every corner. First realize that this feeling normal. This does happen when you are walking unknown paths. Don't try to suppress it but let it come up completely. Let it become as big as it has to be with all your worse case scenarios. Just let it out.

2. This is of course VERY uncomfortable. It general is a feeling that stays with you for a few days (on and of) and can 'hit you' sometimes a full day. If it's too much just be kind to yourself and remember that it's new and you will adjust to it.

3. Sometimes you can choose to pop a herbal pill, like Avena Sativa or a magnesium supplement.

4. Tapping (EFT) is a great way to work through fears. There are many videos on how to do that on you tube. It basically "rewires" the energy in your body and it uses acupressure points. If you are stressed now, notice how stroking or softly tapping on the top of your head instantly helps you calm down.

5. Continue business as usual. Really, don't get too much into this feeling, but try to stay firmly on track.

6. Planning helps, especially if you are a planning king or queen, but also know you can't plan every detail. Affirmation: I release the need to control.

7. If you are in the pre-stage of making changes it can help to do activities that are way out of your comfort-zone (I once spend two days on a wooden raft in the middle of nowhere, alone, for a spiritual magazine article on comfort zones & silence. Although it became a fun article, there are easier and more comfortable ways of getting iin touch with yourself)

8. Yay! How great is it you are taking these steps!! Remind yourself that in each moment you can choose to work with changes. You are in charge of your life. You are capable!